自从来到美帝，生活总是一波三折，有时还七八折。折得我现在见怪不怪了，对“福兮祸之所藏，祸兮福之所倚”有了深刻认识。这人呐，遇见好事不能太得意，遇见坏事也不能太失落，正所谓“不以物喜，不以己悲”。事情来一件解决一件，水来将挡，兵来土掩。今日读到老诗一首：
If
Rudyard Kipling
If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or, being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or, being hated, don’t give way to hating,
And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise;If you can dream – and not make dreams your master;
If you can think – and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with triumph and disaster
And treat those two imposters just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to broken,
And stoop and build ‘em up with wornout tools;If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breath a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: “Hold on”;If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings – nor lose the common touch;
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run -
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
And – which is more – you’ll be a Man my son!
这Kipling老爷子写了一大通，我总结无非就两个字：淡……！定！
最近杯具盛行，但我感觉人生还是更像COS或者sinα，有起有落，直至无穷。
的确有点杯具盛行……去留无意，看庭前杯卷杯舒啊
有起有落的人生才是精彩的，一帆风顺并不见得是好事。
自己的人生究竟过的究竟怎么样，外人的评价是一方面，重要的是自己的内心是喜悦的，无怨无悔的，感觉这一辈子过得值。
晕，在小谢的地盘上谈人生，还有我的观点太自我了，不健康。
你肯定不如我自我，自我并不是什么坏事，有时候人就是给自己背负太多责任，自己过得不开心，别人也未必因此过得更好。我的观点是不懂自私的人一定达不到真正的无私境界。
：）
杯具与洗具总是不分家的.大失所望就杯具了;喜出望外就洗具了,就看你把零点设在哪了.